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Friday 4 March 2016

Urmila Matondkar Got Married With Kashmiri Muslim Man


‘Rangeela' actress Urmila Matondkar, a brahman girl got married to her Kashmiri Muslim boyfriend Mohsin Akhtar Mir recently in a traditional Hindu ceremony at her Bandra residence in Mumbai. The wedding was a very private affair with only Urmila and Mohsin's family and closest friends attending the auspicious ceremony. However, as per the latest reports on BollywoodLife.com, the newly-married couple will now have a Muslim wedding, aka Nikah, soon after their marriage is registered this week. The couple even plan to throw a grand and lavish reception for the film fraternity and friends outside the industry in a few days from now. Looks like, there are celebrations galore at Urmila's residence, at least, for a few days!

According to reports, the two had met during Manish's niece's wedding in 2014 and hit it off immediately. While the wedding was a close-knit affair, only one Bollywood celeb had made it there. It was Mohsin and Urmila's mutual friend, Manish Malhotra.

Mohsin Akhtar Mir is a part of the Indian film industry. However, that was not always the case. Mohsin is the scion of a well-to-do Kashmiri business family. Like most families, Mohsin's parents wanted him to takeover the reins of the family business once he was 21. They also wanted him to tie the knot and settle down. But, Mohsin, who was bitten by the acting bug, had other plans. He ran away from home and came to Mumbai to chart his own course in Bollywood.

Mohsin Akhtar Mir was a part of Farhan Akhtar-starrer, 'Luck By Chance.' The actor had a very short role but one that was impactful. He played the male model who proved to be Farhan's competitor in the film. Mohsin has played the lead role in 'It's A Man's World.' He is a male prostitute in the film that was directed by Saurabh Sengupta and also starred Mouli Ganguly. He was also a part of the film, 'Mumbai Mast Kalandar.'

Mohsin, who now delves into the Kashmiri embroidery business, is ten years younger to Urmila Matondkar, who turned 42 recently. Mohsin was the second runner-up at the Mr India model hunt of 2007. While he has gone back to his roots and is at the helm of his family business, Mohsin was also a part of AR Rahman's music video, 'Taj Mahal.'

93 years ago, Nehru had a Kanhaiya moment in Nabha

93 years ago, Nehru had a Kanhaiya moment in Nabha

March 4, 2016, 2:38 PM IST  in Paperweight | India | TOI
I bought Jawaharlal Nehru’s autobiography 10 years ago on a visit to Rajghat, but started reading it only the night when Kanhaiya was beaten up in court. I read only a chapter or two a day, and yesterday afternoon, I was on Chapter 16: An Interlude at Nabha. It’s a startling account; makes you wonder whether India has moved at all in these 93 years.
Prime Minister Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru addressing a public meeting on Ramlila Grounds in New Delhi on June 20, 1956, on the eve of his departure for Europe.
In 1923, Nehru, AT Gidwani and K Santanum visited Jaito in Nabha, Punjab to witness a peaceful chain protest by Sikhs. The Sikhs used to come in batches called jatthas. Each jattha was beaten up by police and bundled away in carts. But another came to take its place.
When Nehru and his companions arrived, the British administrator of the state ordered them not to enter Nabha (they were already inside), and if they had entered, to leave immediately (not possible, there was no train at that hour). So they were arrested for breach of the administrator’s order. For a couple of days they remained in an insanitary jail, and then their trial started.
Late one evening, they were taken to a different court room. “I inquired where we were and what was happening. I was informed that it was a court-room and we were being tried for conspiracy.”
Nehru writes the more serious charge of conspiracy was trumped up to make an example of them. “It was evidently thought that the maximum sentence for this breach (of order) being only six months was not enough punishment for us and a more serious charge was necessary.”
But the law said a conspiracy needed to have at least four conspirators, “so a fourth man, who had absolutely nothing to do with us, was arrested and put on his trial with us. This unhappy man, a Sikh, was not known to us, but we had just seen him in the fields on our way to Jaito.”
Nehru protested that the conspiracy trial had been started without notice and he would have liked to arrange a lawyer. The court told him to choose one in Nabha. “When I suggested I might want some lawyer from outside I was told that this was not permitted under the Nabha rules.”
The government was only trying to intimidate them. The jail superintendent made them an offer on behalf of the administrator: “If we would express our regret and give an undertaking to go away from Nabha, the proceedings against us would be dropped.”
The trial was a farce. “On the last day, when the prosecution case was closed, we handed in our written statements. The first court adjourned and, to our surprise, returned a little later with a bulky judgment written out in Urdu. Obviously this huge judgment could not have been written during the interval… The judgment was not read out; we were merely told that we had been awarded the maximum sentence of six months for breach of the order to leave Nabha territory… In the conspiracy case we were sentenced the same day to either eighteen months or two years, I forget which.”
The trial had been held in complete secrecy. “No newspaperman or outsider was allowed in court. The police did what they pleased, and often ignored the judge or magistrate and casually disobeyed his directions.”
They were sentenced, but, “We did not know what the judgments contained… We asked for copies of the judgments, and were told to apply formally for them.”
That same evening, the administrator “suspended” their sentences, without attaching any conditions. Note, the sentences were merely suspended, not revoked. Nehru never came to know what his sentence said. But his chief worry was that it hung like a sword over him. “For aught I know, these sentences may still be hanging over me, and may take effect whenever the Nabha authorities or the British government so choose.”
What became of the Sikh, their co-conspirator?
“We found out that he was one of the old ‘Komagata Maru’ lot, and he had only recently come out of prison after a long period. The police do not believe in leaving such people out, and so they tacked him on to the trumped-up charge against us.”
Story sounds familiar? Be the change.